[quote=@GeekFactor]
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Well, most of us do ;) But when you *value* the characters above maintaining a mutually respectful relationship with the person behind the character, that's a problem for me. I've seen people treat players like dirt, yet expect them carry on the RP because they only want the story, without remembering that without that player, there'd *be* no story. I hope that makes better sense. 
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It's certainly valid to expect the other person to at least be congenial for a roleplay to work.

I must admit, a roleplay goes much smoother with a lively OOC in support. Dead or toxic OOC tends to invalidate the roleplay >.>