[quote=@Realmatic] *It flickers to life, but quickly dies* Aron, you don't have to let it control you. You just have to stop acting—stop talking—and [i]listen[/i]. Then, once you know what it's really trying to say, [i]then[/i] you can talk to it. Good! Excuse it if it gets snarky, and possibly personal. Have any advice for Aron here? [/quote] Not anything beyond what you've said. It's really not a matter of control in either direction. It's a mutual understanding.