One of the best writer's I had was I assumed female, but to be honest I don't really know cause we branched into all sorts of areas across the total of four roleplays. Unfortunately they left due to some personal reasoning but I am always waiting for their return because they were such an amazing writer, no matter what gender they were. 

However I'll repeat my question with a yes or no answer... Is it wrong for me to make a choice on a writer based on a gender?

My point is that no matter what you answer your talking about how I should not be allowed the freedom of choice, that I must be restricted to every possibility and must take everything that comes our way. You have also basically compared me and others to sex offenders who crave for clit pics just to prove your point.

I'm not trying to put you on the spot, but how is having a choice on who you write with connected with the desire to sexually harass someone?