[quote=@Visionaryness]
<Snipped quote by Hank>

Dude, speak for yourself. I don't know about the rest of the men on this site but I could be playing the raunchiest kinkiest smuttiest dirtiest 1x1 ERP and for [i]some reason[/i] I don't feel like my sexuality takes a ding if my RP partner turns out to be a man too. You're right that this is a [i]fantasy[/i] but I'm not having any fantasies about the other [i]player[/i] it's all about the RP itself and [i]the characters[/i]. There's no 'breaking the spell' or 'lost interest' if my partner is a man, as long as the characters are straight. Maybe we have a very different idea of what the [i]purpose[/i] of these RPs is and I agree that it might not be sexism, but what you're saying sounds a lot like homophobia instead. 

Maybe I'm the odd man out that I can still get into it without feeling like my sexuality is being questioned but don't act like you're the mouthpiece for all straight men on this forum. I don't give a flying fuck if my smut rp partner is a guy, a girl, or an alien (tentacles preferred please.)

Cheers!
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That's you. I personally make a distinction between character and roleplayer, but Hank is not wrong in saying that there are in fact people as he described. Between the post you quoted and the post I just quoted, the case is clear - there's many ways that people approach the same thing.

You have your way. I have my way. Hank presented another way.

At the end of the day, it is not a case of "one definition fits all".