Actually the word choice is very crucial here. I didn't think he was saying that my choice and decisions were wrong, I just didn't want to be lumped in, even accidentally, with the kind of people he is talking about. His poor choice of wording implied that all straight men looking to play smut feel the way he was describing, when we do not. I felt it important to clarify [i]because[/i] I don't feel that way. If he had added the word 'some', as in 'some straight men', or specified in some other way, there would have been no need for me to comment.