If someone can't keep me updated then why should I waste my time on the? Life can get crazy. But if you don't have a minute to post am update in ten days then you don't have time for an RP. I don't mind waiting if I have an idea how long it will be. But without that knowledge I have to assume that they have lost interested. I have almost ever RP that hasn't had a post by the tenth day will never get another post.