Yerig hummed and gave a light, understanding nod. "That kind of pain, it's a story I've heard and seen many times. It's why I'm out here wandering Tamriel instead of sitting on a mountain shouting at the sky. I wanted to try to keep people from having to live through it. People's minds, they deal with pain differently. Sometimes people press through their trauma and move on with their lives, sometimes it haunts them. I know what you went through was horrible, but your mind might not dwell on it. It might not be the same for you as it was for your friends. You've got to have hope that you'll be able to get through it." 

The Nord groaned briefly as he stood to his feet, then walked around the fire to sit back down beside Sabine, placing a gentle hand on her shoulder. "Look, if it does end up haunting you and you end up suffering because of what happened, don't be afraid to go to your friends. Lean on them for support, because I promise it can help. But, if you can get past it; if your nightmares aren't haunted by it, then you don't have to re-live the experience talking to anyone about it. I'm sure your friends will understand. You have to do what is best for you; don't worry about anyone else. You can make your own judgments on it, but only as long as you know that you're being honest with yourself. More than anything else, don't try to suffer through it on your own if it turns out that you do need help."