[quote=@Scout]
Y'all have a fluent Russian speaker here and you don't use him?

Gospazha (English spelling of Slavic languages is weird) can be Mrs. Or ma'am. For lady as a title you could go with Baronessa, which is obviously a baroness, or Grafinya, which is a countess. I'm looking into land owning nobility now and I'll get back to you with results. [@Draken]
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I was able to find a few things, its simply that Lady has lost a significant part of its association with birth and rulership and moved towards the level of respect and class the person is seen as owed. The word I was looking for may not exist. Still, thank you (and you know Russian??)