There are lots of people I would like to talk to, but then I'm afraid there will be [b]one[/b] crucial detail about them that I just can't live with, so I don't. [s]Issue: I want to talk to people but I don't want to get to know them, except I do, but only if it actually turns out I like them, but how will I know without talking to them or getting to know them. Sigh. Then the loop continues.[/s]