...Puberty is the only time you can make drastic changes to your physiology, seriously, you already know how so go do it and don't wait any longer. I mean X-men level of change *explains how*. Do it now. Also, don't go into the military, move somewhere else if you have to. They just want to use you. You will be changed in a way you don't want if you don't. What is the most perfect home you can thInk of?