[@Belle] If anything Heccarim isn't as straight up abusive or what not as other Drakken. He'd be more apathetic than anything and more pragmatic. A bride is someone to get him a successor warden and then a reward for service. Although that said he's aiming for a strong willed Gem since other wise they won't be able to handle the sheer amount of horror movie bullshit that the prison he runs has.