[@Hekazu] >the norm
look, FL has established that genders aren't even the norm when there are men about with the faces of squid, so what's a little guy-guy dancing?  Also, historically speaking, I think it was actually acceptable to partner with someone of the same gender, though that might have been a different era.  I can't remember.

If [@Gordian Nought] meant the cat, well...that probably can't be helped, alas.  But he'd take a shoulder and be a great wingman.  However I was mostly joking.