Wow! I did not expect so much response. Thank you!

I think I find myself agreeing with the solution of collaborating on a post with another character where a post warrants a detailed dialogue or the like, and that very minute actions are passable such as a returned hello or something of the like. It seems to drawing a definite line and using a good sense of judgement.

As another point, I think GMs who to a degree god-mods their characters to put them in specific situations or navigate them from one scene to the other is necessary depending on how the GM is running the RP. In one RP I am in the GM plays his own sets of characters and navigates the roleplay that way while in another the GM controls the entire environment we find ourselves in navigating us to specific situations. I guess it is just a different style.