I don't care for writing it in a public setting, and very rarely in general tbh. I feel like the genre as a whole attracts a lot of young people (which makes sense, hormones and stuff) and that alone is enough to drive me away. It also seems to attract, well, bad writers. Kinda judgy, but just my perception. Also I very rarely ever see actual value in sex-scenes. 99 out of 100 are fanservice (or self-service in an rp setting, I guess). Off the top of my head I can remember about two sex-scenes in movies/mangas/shows/books that genuinely contributed to the story or the character's development in a way a fade-to-black wouldn't have achieved. And, going bakc to the 1 out of a 100, even less people than that actually want to write erotica for that purpose, so, eh. I can respect erotica if it's well-written and delivers a story, but pure smut is just blegh to me. If everyone involved enjoys it and consents, do it regardless, sure, but it's not for me. I do read stories with sex scenes sometimes, but I don't enjoy them if they're written only to enable the smut rather than include it.