[quote=@Gisk]
I don’t know about trading for a second variant. What two variants did you have in mind?[/quote]
First variant is Retractable Stingers like in Ultimate Spider-Man cartoon.

Second possible variant I was thinking Appendage Generation like six armed spider-man but can generate and degenerate them (or shed them). These additional arms would not have the stingers as the primary arms.

Guess you missed this part:
I am trying to come up with a hero who ruined my character's life. Any suggestions? I was thinking Spider-Man but wasn't sure if that would be cool. If Spider-Man who would he be dating? If it is Spider-Man how old would he be and how long has he been a hero?