[quote=@KoL]
In other words, Mari is Judge Frollo. At one point, she might have been a legitimately good person but now, she became self-righteous and condescending to the point of turning down the people she's supposed to be allies with.
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Hard not to when her actual age is 70ish. She has seen shit. But i would not compare her to Frollo as she isnt chasing skirts around. Stannis would be a better fit.

And to be fair, it is easy to turn down people who make veiled threats just to be cool.