[quote=@The Harbinger of Ferocity] I am a creature of routine and ritual where everything must be consistent and follow a pattern. The lifestyle of haphazard, sudden, and spontaneous choices is not one I can live and it mentally taxes my psyche. There are things that can and must be done, whereas others can be rearranged. When things become out of order I am alarmed and typically am the only one to notice something out of place. I trade versatility for mastery in the process of this. [/quote] Order and routine are comfort zones for me. I must admit that I enjoy a occasional spontaneity. It keeps you on your toes. On occasion, I will work a little into my children's lives to keep them on their toes as well. It is all done in good fun. Ultimately, both my wife and I are planners.