The thing is that I do not know what situation I'm in with no interest and no matter the efforts I feel like I've done to get interest it hasn't worked at all while for others it seems easy for them to get it. I've tried taking a step back from posting knowing my previous one didn't get the interest I wanted, I even looked at others and most had at least more than a few posts of interest. In terms of myself I just don't know what the situation I'm in is and how to change it without feeling at least frustrated that my efforts were in fact for naught when others get the spotlight in interest.