Tyaethe didn't respond to the drider, steadying herself and clambering across the golem's shoulders to move in closer. Not supposed to do that? That was one strong thing for someone blocking their way to say. Would she rather that they fired arrows and the like at her until she fell down? 

With the mage having little room to manoeuvre on the golem's back, there was nothing for her to do as the paladin got in closer and closer, heavily armoured and leaning forward... lifting the spider-legged figure up with some difficulty due to the... awkward body shape and struggling. but she was a pretty small drider, with nowhere to run to--fighting Tyaethe off just wasn't going to happen.

And then she jumped off.

"Let us through."