Eh. The brother in law thing is a semi-annual bitch fit on his part. That he just decided to throw in my house at 6am this time. (and wake me up in the process).
The mom thing was me standing my ground. No regrets there. But I expect some family member or another will make me feel bad about it, eventually. 
Bring it on.

How were your celebrations, [@Michellin] ? Drinking? Games? Smooches??