I didn't think I would actually be at this point in 2019 let alone an early part of the new year but I find myself here yet again.

To recap to anyone that is reading this, today I had a partner on another site informing me they "lost the touch" when it comes to the roleplay we once shared. Now to me, that is a major blow knowing once again I lost another possible partner and it is getting to the point where I am currently lost the mojo if you will when it comes to looking for a compatible partner. 
For one where my luck hasn't been good at all for me but the complete opposite, despite my efforts to adapt, listening to other advice to add to adding more varied options to my list it has not been enough in a long-term roleplay vision aspect of it while on this other site more often I ended up ignored, blocked or not even interesting to potential partners. I'll leave it at this; unless you guys who answer want more details and I'll leave it completely up to you. But what would you guys do in this situation where your confidence is just low? And what to do in order to regain any confidence again?