I think Avina would be more upset about it to hear it from a secondary source honestly. If she heard it from him she might freak out but hearing it from violet or Brian will make her mad and freaked. We shall see how it goes. ^.^

If I look at it from Avinas point of view, she would fight him. She would understand the anger boiling under his skin and use her knowledge of her own kind that the best thing to do is fight it out. Kissing him would be out of character because she has never relied on feminine charm to calm am angered person down.