Looked at their posts. It said 4 mos ago, so I assume that FemShep hasn't been on here since then. I'd do an internet search, but the username might be too common for me to find the actual user you're looking for. That and they might have different usernames on other sites.

In other words, I'm afraid I can't be of more help than this.

Edit: I'm sure there's nothing to worry about. If it goes for years, only then should you assume the worst.