he put a hand on his shoulder "then get to know her, make a suggestion to your parents you want to see her, go to her spend time getting to know her, and in return she will get to know you before the wedding" he says to him.  "its your life, you call the shots, you tell them what your doing, the contract is made step up and take the chance" he said "hey i have to get going" he said "your sister will contact you to let you know where we are at.  If you need us to come to you before the wedding let me us know" he told him.  he smiled he could feel her scurrying around him. "i really need to go" he says "Later" he said as he walked out the door.