[@Danelaw] I understand. They were just some wild ideas. 

Fight of flight type of scenario is what you're aiming for, if I understood correctly. I always strived for neutrality or on the line in my RPs/character ideologies, that's why I was thinking of something neutral.

If I'm not mistaken, this will be basically a slice-of-life RP in GoT universe with a few twists. Correct? 

For a character, I would probably go towards a not-so-lady-like Lady, meaning she learned to fight (no, I'm not thinking Arya) with a sword and is interested in fighting more than being a lady-in-waiting. Does that sound ok for you? I can think of something different if needed.