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...what do you mean?
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*Clasps your hands*
Shinji, you're here. Right now. With me. All of that is gone. Your past doesn't define you—you get to decide for yourself what makes you the one you are. Healing will be slow; I won't lie to you. It will hurt. You just have to open those wounds and give yourself permission. If nobody else is judging you here, why do you judge yourself?