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Isn't not getting them involved as simple as not telling them?
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If this were at the scale of what I consider normal, yea.
But the last thing I want is to have one tiny connection that someone finds and uses against me by dragging them into it.
After all, I'm at a point where they wouldn't be able to deal with what I previously knew and I'm unlikely to be capable of dealing with what I now know.