Cara: my two cents, then I will go back to not commenting on the matter: I dunno. I hope he's trying as hard as you are. One thing I don't like hearing, and don't want to be around, is hearing the tone of a defeatist. But then I don't know the guy,nor do I know the important details of this whole thing, and I'm sure you two are doing what you can. But I just hope this whole thing isn't one-sided.