Mich: I'm pretty sure he's not giving up. It hopefully isn't one sided. But he's just in a spot where he's not sure if he wants to remain in a marriage or split up and live wild. I think its a pretty common reaction to a terminal-ish diagnosis from a doctor. He loves me, he's just not sure he's /in/ love. He's not sure about anything, even about his job, or where he wants to settle... anything. So its not only me. 
When we FINALLY (fucking military) get stateside and settle in a house wherever we are sent, I think it will be easier on him to decide. So basically, its just a waiting game for now. 

Krin. Really, thank you. You are a huge help. I'd give you a giant hug and cook you a huge feast if I could.