[quote=@Techspert] *Looks confusedly at you* When it comes to mental health, wouldn't bias be [i]better?[/i] Allowing the one who makes him the most comfortable to stay would be much better for him. [/quote] According to mental health, just because someone or something can comfort him doesn't mean it will be good for him in every situation. Kids have to discard their security blankets and some point, and alcoholics either die or put down the bottle. I'm not saying that if he asks for us to let him see you that I'll stop him, but at the same time you can't always be there every step of the way.