[quote=@Fractured] But why a hole in the first place? Perhaps not, but many make poor decisions. [/quote] Well, that’s okay. [quote=@Galvanize] Still, you are his wife, he should share these problems with you. [/quote] Oh, believe me, we are on the same page. I just don’t want to add a livid wife to things he has to process until I see him in person when I know he can focus on it.