[quote=@Audacious]
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If it’s manageable then sure he might not need help. But I see no reason to hide the fact that it exists. Communication on these things prevents you from blindsiding the other later on, which is a big reason why couples fight.
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My aim was to make a distinction between hiding a detail and not mentioning it in the first place. It's a bit of a close issue to me.