[quote=@Asce] *looks down as you say that* I know you are capable of helping, [b]more[/b] than capable. I...I just want you to relax, be at home with the kids, go out and have fun...I want you to know that I got whatever problems handled, and that you just worry about you. I shouldn’t have cut you off completely...I should have taken you with me. Its not fair to you or the kids. How can you relax when I am not there to make the family whole...? You and the little ones mean the world to me. I just wanted, and still want, yall to know that I’ll take care of it. [/quote] I want [i]us[/i] to relax... I want us to solve problems together, relax together, have fun together, and even struggle together. As a husband and wife should. You and me, together with the kids, fending off whatever the world throws at us and them.