[quote=@Gunther]
We are conflict avoiders.
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The best method of dealing with conflict is to first not be embroiled by it or so I have found. Becoming mired in it only brings more trouble, which has always led me to wonder why people flock and gather to it. It reminds me of stories of people walking toward the receding tide just to try and see the source of the oddity. This is not to say I am opposed to conflict but I certainly do not go looking for it.