no worries, and, no need to apologize. that was a courtesy heads up, itse generally considered bad form for some characters to get less of a chance to participate than others, so just putting that out there. Nobody has actually done anything wrong, yet.

As for the discord... Considering some of what I'm seeing in the status bar with no explanation as to why, I'm just going to say a chat setting would be better suited for 1X1, otherwise for a group Roll20 is already a thing. 
I've attempted rp dedicated servers in the past, with zero success for it. Probably because I had clear rules.

a lot more work would go into managing an rp via a discord server for rp purposes, and coordination, and it would be harder for me to enforce certain rules and expectations, as I can't be present at all hours, nor is there any effective means for me to manage an rp like I can, here. I'm just not going to give myself a lot more work that comes with vetting and moderating a discord channel when a forum works much better for my purposes, anyway.

TL;DR- if I was able to put together and coordinate a game where people meet up at an agreed upon time and such, I'd be doing that out here in meat-space. Online? PBP is still the best format for players/player groups that have busy lives and stuff.

Why do you ask? What is the actual deal with this "discord rp" business everyone is throwing around?