Welcome to the community. 

I actually come from a similar background as you (Chatango which became MSN then Skype and eventually Discord) so adjusting to forum Roleplays has come with its own obstacles for me as well. I have a friend that is currently in the process of setting up a Discord server with people on this site in hopes of using it as a recruitment tool for both site Roleplays and Discord ones. I could shoot you an invitation to that if it interests you though no worries if it doesn't! There are still plenty of fantastic games already going on and I'm sure that you can find one that suits your tastes with enough searching.

Just. . Just stay away from 1x1 if you're trying to avoid smut still, probably.