[quote=@Heroic] It can’t be the fault of the only party directly moving toward improvement. That just makes no sense. Has the quiet one decided to chime in? [/quote] But if they don't improve because you meddled? When they would have been better off if you didn't get involved? [quote=@Balance] Eh. I never quite recovered from the one I had a long time ago, but I’m nowhere near the edge, now. Yeah, you probably have the right idea. We go an extra mile or so to immerse ourselves in some of the cultures. We can’t do all of them, obviously, but some. [/quote] Most places I go seem to be pretty accepting of people who are interested in them and their lives.