This is also intended to be a general thread rebornfan.  

If you want to have a long discussion about your personal issues try DMs.  This is more intended as like a thread for folks to state things they have issues with or have friends who have issues with and then receive advice and then try to implement it.  It's not intended as a Help Reborn thread.  Sorry if that's kinda harsh but Ammokkx was right about that.  Advice doesn't work if you don't want to implement it.