Sometimes you have to change a lot of things to get what you want. Don't think of it as a "I will do this one thing and I will get what I want" situation. Think of it as a "I will change this and it will get me one step closer to what I want. Then I can figure out what I need to do next. And then what I need to do next. And eventually I will get to what I want and then I will do a little dance to celebrate how far I have come and get some Curry Chicken and then figure out what I am going to do next." situation.