Tristan shrugs, a slow and liquid gesture like slipping off a heavy mantle cloak. Learn the skills, and do the work that is in front of you; This he understands. The rest? Not so much. Tristan has never been afraid of revealing his ignorance by asking questions. 

"I am making you into temptation itself, I hope." Tristan explains. "I can't tell you how you'll feel, or how you should feel. But temptation is frightening, so you will be frightening to her. How does that make you feel? Will you enjoy having that power over her? The temptation is a yearning, and she will yearn for you. How does [i]that[/i] make you feel? If she withstands temptation, will you be proud, or disappointed? If she gives in, will you say 'no', to renounce responsibility for her actions? Or will you say 'yes', believing you [i]both[/i] deserving of forgiveness? Or will you say 'yes', wishing you could say 'no'?"

“If you ask me for my judgement? I think Sir Coilleghille needs to learn the pain of being forgiven."