From my understanding, she wouldn't feel it...cause she's not 16 years old at the time of 'the attack' since she is 3 years younger. To my knowledge of what you wrote down in your summery of the plot in the interest check...they feel each other's emotions, once both of them 'have the mark.' But she doesn't get the mark at the same time as him due to the age difference.
So she wouldn't look for him, at such a young age...she starts looking when she's 18 as we had agreed. Not before hand from what we plotted.