[quote=@Cao the Exiled]
This is all off topic and I guess could be a trigger warning? I'll remove if asked, also I apologize if this is uncalled for, I don't have many people I could talk to this about.

[Hider=off topic/trigger warning]This dude on fb was saying how changelings are so non-binary that they were known to cut off or remove their privates. Of all my years playing, from 2e ad&d to 5th (skipped 4th), I had never heard of changelings mutilating themselves just to not identify their genders, especially when they can simply alter their body however they want. [/hider]
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As someone who regularly plays Changelings I can say definitively that they do not need to cut bits in order to change. Whoever thinks that is an idiot. It's as easy a process as a druid wild shaping. No self mutilation happens.