"A rose by any other name, smells just as sweetly dahling. I am who i choose to be. You cant get more liberated than that."

ember smiled.

"As for looking for a 'recharge', you're barking up the wrong magician right now.  Besides, I'm not going to pop my wand on someone like you dahling.  My REAL power cannot be properly... Conducted... by a mere sentimental trinket like this dear. I packed lightly, for a vacation-- not a bloody war. Cough up a proper focus, and we'll business."

Ember smiled wickedly.

"No? Well then. I think that would be all."