[quote=@kitramos] okay, I can see that this is also not being taken the way I intended either and last thing I want to do is make people uncomfortable. I suppose this does highlight how everyone's journey is different, as I wasn't just making this up wholesale. but putting in personal experiences and having the char be where I'm at pre change and then get to explore vicariously what it might be like if I had the means to do such a transformation, as it's one I think I would take if I had the option. I guess I would fit more on that gender fluid side of things as there are certainly times I would love to have the option and there are times it's not such a big deal to me. and just never had to think about it to much until now. anyways, as I said the last thing I want to do is make people uncomfortable as this is supposed to be fun, so if it's going to cause problems we can just say my char has always been female. [/quote] Well, as I said before, I'd be okay if the character was [i]already[/i] transitioning and presenting as their gender identity, but what you were suggesting is a character who, for all intents and purposes, presents as male and lives within [i]that[/i] identity and then they are suddenly changed into a new gender against their will and before they've even begun transitioning into that gender identity. Such a situation would likely cause a lot of psychological trauma for anyone, and that particular type of trauma is not something I'm interested in seeing in an RP, especially considering there is about to be a [i]lot[/i] of [b][i]real life[/i][/b] trauma of the sort if these election predictions turn out to be true. [quote=@Crimson Flame] I’m going with this. [/quote] Okay, sounds good! XD