[quote=@kitramos] I never said it was against their will, I was trying to say it was something they where very much okay with and even had some reason to want to be on the other side even. just didn't want it badly enough to make it a priority over the other things. and when it happened the are surprised but not upset as it was on their list of things they wanted. I'm not trying to stomp on anyone toes, or even try to keep in that aspect to my character, just explain where my mind was. I'll respect that you guys have different options on this so I'm going to drop it, and not bring that up again. my character was born female and remains that way. I'll go with that as your right none of us need/want the drama and this has turned into way more drama then I wanted. So lets just forget I even brought up the idea of me playing a trans char and I won't bring it up again. Sorry for causing a mess. [/quote] Against their will in the sense that it wasn't a conscious choice to suddenly change what gender they are presenting as, since you mentioned them being surprised by it and having a culture shock. If this were to happen in the RP, she should already be presenting - dressing and acting - as her female gender identity prior to exposure to the amulet. I have no problem whatsoever with anyone playing a character anywhere on the LGBTQIA+ spectrums, so long as it is done respectfully. If you want to play a trans character, I'm all for it, but I don't want the transition to jump from zero to a hundred with no time for the character to reflect and acknowledge how they are truly feeling. If you want to do this, I strongly feel the character should already identify as a trans woman prior to the change. I understand you didn't mean for it to come off the way it was received, and I'm sure we can all still have a great time in the RP together. [quote=@Stitches] I'm interested, if you have room for a few more! [/quote] Sure! Welcome aboard!