that is a hard questions. because everything happens for a reason. yes I am believe that God makes things happen for a reason. But if I had to choose I guess I would pick late mid-late 80s. to see how my mom was when she was a teenage. to see why she made certain choice. she made yes I know everything happens for a reason. but sometimes someone reason affect other lives around them or in them. if you life was a book what would the title be called?