Sorry for your loss Aisling *hugs* I get you on the hard-to-do-anything part, especially since I'm quite an emotional and sentimental person myself.

People say time heals everything, and I think that to be true. I hope you are able to cheer up and live well for his sake.

Don't worry, long posts aren't a must anyway. Just RP any length you wish, what's more important is to keep going forward. Cheers!