I understand ghosting being a large factor when it comes to RP motivation. I too would be fed up if my partners keep vanishing for weeks at a time. But at the same time, it does sound like you're being impatient and pushy. Being excited for a RP is one thing, but rushing your partner(s) into posting is another (since you're considering a RP with no posts for a few days = dead). If you're someone who is frequently checking the forums and wanting to post multiple times to day, I would suggest finding a partner that can keep to that standard rather than continue to fault people who are unable to keep to your expectations.