[quote=@Mole] [@wheels], there are great books on how to navigate social situations with toxic people/toxic situations. There are also books dedicated to setting healthy boundaries. I strongly recommend looking into those, at least to enrich your social and emotional toolbox. [/quote] I try everything talking to someone and other things but one specialist said I was programmed differently then most people. I kind of always been that way so I am kind of use to my feel