[quote=@Vertigo]
So with a [url=https://www.roleplayerguild.com/rolls/26821]9[/url]... hmm how to word this, damn. Uh, I guess like: "How could I get you to open up about the situation with your sibling(s)?"
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Considering Fellwing is the one asking this, mentioning some aspect of her own family situation would work. It's up to you what you feel would be most applicable here.